Why not talk about it? Every mother wants to be a MILF, right? We all want to be thought of as sexy, confident, desirable women not just in spite of our motherhood but because of it! I know I do and I'm sure other mothers do too!
So... how do we become MILF's?
To be completely honest, I think it's less about our size, shape, and done up-ness and more about our confidence, posture, and self-image. If you think you're hot stuff, you probably are, right?
When I think I'm worth taking a few extra minutes to put on mascara in the morning, I not only look better because I've put on mascara, I look better because I feel more attractive, more valuable, more worthy of my own time and effort. When I spent a minute thinking about what to wear instead of tossing on the same old yoga pants and t-shirt, I feel better about myself which means I carry myself differently. Believing I'm worth it makes me look better, sexier, more desirable. Who could ask for more, right?
It's a challenge to come up with self-confidence out of the blue. It would be so much easier if someone called me a MILF and gave me a boost... then I'd feel more beautiful and that would be that! Yeah, right... Something most of us need to work on is feeling good about ourselves without someone else's opinion or approval. We're bombarded by images of beautiful women with boylike figures that most of us mothers could never obtain (nor would we want to, how would we breastfeed with no body fat?). It's so hard to create our own image of beauty and sex appeal around our own bodies and faces but it's worth it.
Check out Operation Beautiful for some inspiration.
As a mother, my body has changed in many ways and regardless of whether it's "better" or "worse" than it was before, it's a mother's body and that is powerful, that is strong, that is feminine... and THAT makes me sexy, desirable, and amazing. Keeping that in mind, I can be confident and stand tall which makes me more attractive thereby making me a MILF, right? Why not?
Tuesday, May 24, 2011
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haha. this post is awesome. love it.
ReplyDeleteyay for the milfs :)
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